This is an addition to two previous entries that I wrote almost a year ago on a past blog. So that this new entry makes sense, I have included the first two here:

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I am actually pretty excited to write this entry which is not the norm unfortunately…Regardless here it is and this is dedicated to shane, chris, and ryan.

The three of us are strong Christianguys (or are trying to be) and want the same in a future mate: namely, the first priority in a future mate is her relationship with the Lord. And as we are all in the creative industry, we would like a girl with a unique since of style. This style, and even personality became known as the “Primos Girl”. To be sure, the overwhelming majority of girls that we see at primos are not ones we would take home to mom. But none of us are looking for just one of the majority of girls…We want Her: the one hand picked for us by God. More soon…

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So what we wanted to know was if the Christian Primos Girl existed…who is the Christian primos girl? well, besides the unique style and personality (see first post) she knows how to appropriately walk the fashion line between modesty and sexy. (Hey! we’re guys and we are being honest) But here is the deal…the even more important part: She Must love God above all else. She must demand that of us. Everything else falls into place if He is number one in her life. All of us have made stupid decision at one point or another…but if we earnestly seek Christ, then through God’s grace, our past is our PAST and it is behind us; and now we try to follow hard afterHim. W/o soundingprideful, we are good looking guys and if we wanted to be dating someone, we could…BUT we want Her. And we are willing to wait for her…does that mean that the next girl we date will be the one we marry…not necessarily but it does mean two very important things: she will have a strong possibility of being her; and we will treat the girl we are dating with the respect that our future wife would want, regardless of whether or not it is the girl we are dating. (Put another way, we will treat the girl we are dating as if our future wife were right by our side until we know who she is)And until God sees fit to give us that special lady that is ours to cherish, we want to honor him with our relationships both friend and romantic.

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First off, it should be clear that none of us guys had in mind a certain girl when we were talking about all of this…instead it was the ideal of a girl…(note that Isaid an ideal of a girl, not an ideal girl) Lord knows we are not perfect nor would we really want to be dating (much less married) a woman who was perfect….

Here is the modification that I wanted to make to the first couple of posts…if possible, think of modesty as an action, and sexy as a state of mind or a confidence in Christ. One of the [fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=”yes” overflow=”visible”][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ background_position=”left top” background_color=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” spacing=”yes” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” padding=”” margin_top=”0px” margin_bottom=”0px” class=”” id=”” animation_type=”” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_direction=”left” hide_on_mobile=”no” center_content=”no” min_height=”none”][if not the] sexiest things to a Christian guy, is a woman who is wholly in love with the Lord; that is what shows through whatever a woman is wearing…yes, we are living in the “age of the Image” and guys are evenmore stimulated by their eyes, so in some ways the actual clothing/style matters, but only in a way that accentuates on the outside what is already on the inside. There are certain outfits that I just shouldn’t wear…doesn’t mean I am not handsome, but no guy can pull off every style and every outfit (unless you are in a movie 🙂 It is the same with the Ladies: some woman look great in certain styles and other outfits don’t compliment the way that God made them. Itdoesn’t mean that they are any more or less beautiful than the woman who wear the opposite styles.

Now I am not completely naive…I realize that a woman walking down the street wearing a t-back and string top is going to get more looks from Joe Blow than a woman who is wearing an abaaya (a black gown)…but who would you (as a Lady) rather get looks from…the guy who lustfully drinks in the woman wearing practically nothing, or the guy who immediatelylooks away because he knows that that is not what he wants in a future mate nor is it something his future mate would want him looking at….

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