so i wrote my ex-girlfriend today. i was sick and tired of talking with her every couple of months and there being this huge “elephant in the room” that we weren’t talking about; namely her dating a good friend of mine a month after we finally broke off our two year relationship. You know what? i have never in this blog claimed to know the mind of God…if that is what he had for her, that is great! yeah, it stung a bit but that was 2 years ago and i have moved on. She was my first true love, and it will be weird to hear in the future that she got married to someone else. That doesn’t change the fact that she is an amazing girl AND more importantly, she is Not MY amazing girl. God has someone awesome out there that is going to know my socks off and i can’t wait to meet her. =) in the mean time, i am going elephant hunting in my current friendships.